I am Lily Kabakov (fka Mistress Milch), a Colorado-based provider who finds deep joy in helping people find their inner voice through the erotic. The honorific I prefer is Mistress (always with a capital M). I have been kinky and into BDSM since I can remember and I take pleasure wearing leather and latex in my daily life but especially while dismantling my sweet subs. Along with being a Femdomme, I am a splosh/WAM/Gunge performer and aficionado, which you can see here under my performance moniker Party Slab. As former athlete and strength coach, I know where to push and pull for your best performance in session. I am pursuing a doctorate in visual anthropology and philosophy and if you’re a lucky boy I might teach you about Georges Bataille while slowly compressing your larynx.

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